Crying is a newborn’s only means of communicating that he/she needs something. Do not worry about spoiling your baby by picking him up when he cries. You will learn to distinguish certain cries as hunger, wet/dirty diaper, gas/tummy ache, etc. Some babies will begin an almost daily routine of crying when they are 2-4 weeks of age. This is “colic”. No one knows exactly what causes colic. It tends to occur in the late afternoon or evening hours and is often characterized by inconsolable crying that can last for several hours. The baby’s face may turn dark red; he may draw his legs up then stiffen out; he may pass gas, etc. Although most people have thought colic represents some type of abdominal pain, others have suggested that it may result from immaturity of the nervous system which leads to increased crying. Whatever the cause, it is usually better by 2-3 months of age. Some suggestions to help with a ‘colicky’ infant include: carrying in baby wrap/sling/carrier, gently rocking the baby, putting him in a swing, putting him in a vibrating bouncy seat, or taking him for a car ride. Some babies settle down to the sound of a vacuum cleaner/dishwasher or by placing him on top of the washing machine/dryer (Note: he should be strapped in a seat and accompanied at all times). Other babies respond well to swaddling tightly in a soft, stretchy blanket or by taking them for a walk outside.

Colic can be very stressful to your family. Try letting a family member watch your baby while you take some time alone or with your spouse. Remember, although it may seem like a lifetime away, colic almost always improves by 3 months of age.